I have empathy for those who struggle with how to parent.
I will always remember my struggles when I became a parent. As much as I wanted to be a good parent, I found that I was not unprepared.
I now realize that each parent comes to parenting in their own way. For some it is natural and for others it is not. I learned to give myself grace when my parenting instincts did not kick in.
I had all of this intention, but I had no idea of how to parent well. I had to learn ways to parent the way that I had always dreamed of. Thankfully, I learned how to parent in an encouraging and effective way. I found that parenting in a kind way had a positive impact on my relationships with my children and on their behavior.
I still needed guidance and encouragement, though. I will always appreciate the support that I received. It was transformative. It made all the difference.
Because of my wonderful experience I went on to work with parents. For over 25 years I taught, coached and encouraged hundreds of parents of young children. My research-based strategies are effective and strengthen the parent-child bond.